When Your Relationship Feels Stuck, There’s a Way Forward

When your relationship feels fragile, when arguments loop, intimacy fades, or trust has been broken, it can seem like nothing will ever change. The truth is, many couples who love each other deeply still get lost in patterns that erode connection over time. If you’re tired of walking on eggshells, feeling misunderstood, or wondering if your marriage can survive, you’re not alone, and you don’t have to navigate this alone.

Why My Approach Is Different

I don’t offer one-size-fits-all counseling. These sessions require skill, attunement, and thousands of hours of experience because the complexity and relational risk involved is profound. When couples come to me, they’re often carrying years, sometimes decades, of cycles that have shut down intimacy and created distance. My work goes beyond conflict management or quick fixes, I lean into the conversations most couples fear. The ones that feel raw, high-stakes, or impossible to navigate alone. That’s often where healing begins.

What We’ll Work On

Together, we’ll move beyond surface arguments and defensiveness to address the deeper attachment injuries, unspoken fears, and unmet longings that drive disconnection. Using evidence-based approaches, including Emotionally Focused Therapy and Gottman Method principles, I tailor each session to your relationship’s unique needs. This is highly specialized work, and when both partners engage, the change can be transformative.

Issues I Commonly Help With

• Rebuilding trust after infidelity or betrayal

• Restoring intimacy and sexual connection

• Breaking free from chronic conflict cycles

• Managing anxiety, defensiveness, and reactivity in the relationship

• Healing from years of emotional disconnection