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The Secret to Lasting Love? Emotion Matters More Than You Think

Tuesday, April 25, 2023 | By: Dr. Melissa Hudson, LMFT-Supervisor

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As someone who works as a couples therapist, I'm often asked why I place so much emphasis on discussing emotions in therapy. The answer is simple: emotions are the foundation of connection, the superhighway of connection in fact.

In any relationship, but especially romantic ones, expressing vulnerable emotions can help create and maintain emotional trust and closeness. When we are able to communicate our tender, soft, and vulnerable emotions to our partner, we create a bridge of understanding and empathy that can deepen our connection and strengthen our bond.

As therapists, we encourage couples to develop emotional awareness and fluency. Emotional awareness is the ability to identify and recognize our own emotions, as well as those of our partner. Emotional fluency involves having the vocabulary to express emotions in a clear and effective way.

Without emotional awareness and fluency, communication can become a struggle. This can lead to misunderstandings, conflicts, and feelings of disconnection. When we are unable to express our emotions, we may resort to less effective communication styles, such as passive-aggressiveness, criticism, or withdrawal.

On the other hand, when we're able to communicate our emotions in a genuine and authentic way, we invite our partner to connect with us on a deep and meaningful level. By sharing our emotions, we allow our partner to see us for who we really are, which can lead to a greater sense of intimacy and trust.

While emotions can be powerful and overwhelming at times, a skilled therapist can help couples navigate their emotions in a way that strengthens their relationship, rather than causing harm. By developing emotional awareness and fluency, couples can create a strong foundation of emotional connection that can support them through any challenge they may face.

Emotions are the key to building a healthy and strong relationship. By developing emotional awareness and fluency, couples can create a deep and meaningful connection that can withstand the tests of time. If you're struggling to connect with your partner emotionally, I encourage you to consider seeking the help of a skilled couples therapist who can guide you towards a more fulfilling and satisfying relationship.


As a licensed marriage and family therapist serving Allen, Frisco, Plano, and North Dallas, Dr. Hudson is conveniently located to assist individuals and couples throughout the area in achieving their relationship goals. Click here for more information on the services provided.


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